GUIDES

Packing all day and playing for an hour are different jobs, and they're different garments right down to the fabric. Here's how to tell which one you need.

What size, which style, which O-ring, and what the plus sign actually means. The questions people send us before their first harness, answered in the order they come up.

Measure the widest part of your toy, then pick a ring slightly larger. Never the same size, never smaller. Here's what to do when they don't line up.

Four cuts, all unisex, all built on the same construction. Three questions decide which one is yours, and none of them are about gender.

Lay a pair of comfy fitting jeans flat and measure the waistband. That number, not your usual underwear size, is where harness sizing starts.

A harness is five decisions: size, style, O-ring, rise, and whether you're buying to play or to pack. Get all five right and you'll forget you're wearing it.