OMG! My GF and I have tried a few options prior to RodeoH and have always been slightly disappointed with the lack of control. RodeoH offers that control and it has been a blast!

My wife and I have been enjoying your products for a few years now. We love every pair of harness panties we’ve had. My wife has always been kind of awkward and squeamish about wearing traditional harnesses and finds them to be awkward and mood killing to have to struggle with the straps and buckles, and says she doesn’t feel sexy with with how awkward it is to put one on and then often have excess straps dangling. I have always been very turned on by pegging and being penetrated, which successfully happened literally once prior to discovering your panties after several false starts. Now that she is more comfortable she’s become much more into it and more confident we’ve begun to expand and explore our play … your panties are both sexy and well made!

During a bout of sexual frustration with myself, I glanced over at my husband one evening and said, “I think I’m going to order a strap-on.”

We had never discussed pegging in the past, but his reply was simply, “I have no plan to stop you from doing so.” Way to be both coy and unexpectedly open-minded, dear husband.

So with glee, I bought traditional harnesses from online mega giants – leather and strappy ones with cute lace-up bits like a corset or washable vinyl straps with an adjustable waist.

What I received were knotted tangles of pinchy D rings and uncomfortable straps. Some adjusted like a belt, relying on holes that were too tight or too loose. Some chaffed me raw – ugly straps everywhere, tapping thighs and scratching delicate skin, coming undone after being tied up. And the dildos recommended or attached to them were too small, too hard, didn’t fit … Some slid around painfully or were impossible to remove with ease. They placed too much pressure on weird spots because I couldn’t get them to stay snug to me. To top it all off, they took forever to get on – especially drunk which is my preferred post-5pm state. I ended up looking like a trussed, rum-soaked ham on its way to a BDSM club. I hated the look and feel of all those easy-to-acquire harnesses. It wasn’t intimate and fun, it was industrial and (stupidly) a lot of work.

Our pile of unused and unfulfilling equipment gathered dust. He was sad and going unpegged. I was sad and not getting to peg. Then I went searching for a better option and stumbled upon a blog touting the wonders of a rodeoH panty harness and a matching purple dildo. OF COURSE I would settle on a company owned and operated by women. I can’t imagine any of my previous strap-ons being anything but the ill-designed products of men in glass towers – naturally, my husband agreed with me there.

So I asked my husband if the investment into a rodeoH harness could be considered his Christmas present. He said it was what the baby Jesus would have wanted, so I bought it and, at this point, should probably start my product review.

It is AMAZING with a capital AHHH.

No thick pinching straps cutting into my skin, only soft fabric that lays nicely across my hips, waist, and ass. No impossible to clean leather, just natural cotton that’s washable and doesn’t retain odors. No ill-fitting metal bits that make me feel like a consentless sex robot, just a cute lacey design which is as easy to put on as my favorite pair of underwear.

Speaking of underwear, about sizing: I’m currently 5 ft 6 in tall and weigh 160 lbs. I wear size 8-10 jeans (which is totally arbitrary, I know), and medium clothes otherwise. My underwear is all typically sized medium or large. When I measured them, I fell between a medium and large panty according to their measurements. I hemmed and hawed for a while, but opted for large and am glad I did. They fit perfectly, despite my pudge, placing the O ring at a comfortable level (and not on my pubic bone) and hugging my post-baby belly without rolling down, bunching, or pinching in any way.

Even while wearing them, I don’t understand how a crotchless panty stays on the human body. Honestly, I’m actually still a little confused by it, but they are, in fact, crotchless. They give full access to both my vagina and ass, like a mystical archway to another realm where you don’t understand how it works, but you refuse to question it lest it magically disappear due to your insolence.

As I keep saying, it’s soft – very soft – very sexy – very comfortable. And yet it is flexible! So I can stop, mid-session, and decide to slide the dildo out of the harness and have a go at my partner with just the toy rather than my hips. I CAN DO THAT WITH THIS HARNESS. In fact, I have! And when I am finished – no longer winded or cackling over the incredible nature of this harness – I can slip the dildo back in the O ring with no effort at all, and the panties never have to leave my body! Finally, we can switch positions easily, and if my husband doesn’t want a big purple nob slapping him in the belly, I can remove it (but not the harness if I don’t want to) for use later! Oh the possibilities are endless!

One of those possibilities, since I haven’t seen anyone bring it up yet, is the possible use of this harness with a bullet vibe. Oh boy. Oh girl. Oh everyone! It’s unbeatable. It’s marvelous! It’s downright game-changing. I own a silicone-covered 3.75-inch bullet vibe and a 6.5 inch Tantus Curve dildo (iridescent purple to match). With the dildo slipped in this harness and the bullet tucked inside the pocket it is esentially manna from heaven. A bullet sends vibes down the dildo which he enjoys immensely, and I get direct vibes (or indirect, depending on how I move) exactly where I want them. No slipping, no uncomfortable chaffing, just good ol’ fashioned fun. Plus I can use the bullet pouch + the sexy harness without a dildo during plain old regular sex and everyone has access to everything, and it ups the pleasure ten-fold.

More news: the lace around the edges is not itchy like 90% of lace bras or underwear. It’s not even noticeable – just pretty!

The price is unquestionably reasonable considering what I have paid for other (monumentally sub-par) harnesses that can only be trashed at this point. The shipping was fast. The packaging discreet.

I hand wash mine, but it is apparently machine washable, and since I asked the team if it could be used in a bathtub, they suggested I go for it since there’s no reason it can’t get wet (unlike those leather harness or the vinyl straps that slip when wet).

I want to mention the carrying bag it comes in because, for some reason, I have an obsession with sex toy storage and travel. The wine-colored drawstring bag it comes tucked inside is 6×8 inches with the care instructions printed directly on it. I have found that I can fit everything I would ever want in it, so it is essentially its own little bag of tricks. So that you can imagine the usefulness, I currently store in it (when we travel):

– the crotchless panty harness
– a curved dildo (measuring 7.5 inches in total length, 3.5-in base)
– a 3.75-in bullet vibe in a carrying bag
– a 4.2 oz bottle of Sliquid lube
– 2 x (3 ft by 4 inch) satin wrist restraints (or blindfolds)
– 4 individually wrapped body/toy wipes

I only mention all that because it travels really well as a nice self-contained, inconspicuous kit, and I was shocked to know that I can store the dildo, vibe, and the harness so nicely together. The rest of that gear was just an added bonus.

My only “complaint,” and it’s not even a complaint, is that I plan to finally lose my last annoying 15 lbs of baby weight this year and it will probably drop me a harness size to medium. If that’s the case, I’m stuck with a huge dilemma: do I buy a second crotchless panty in a smaller size or try a different style!? I am racked with indecision but will cross that bridge when I get there. Until then, we will be happily enjoying the one I already have.

Needless to say, this is the best damn harness available, hands down, and it has dramatically changed more than just my and my husband’s sex lives.

There are several things I love about this special underwear. Firstly, unlike strap-ons that require multiple straps to clip into place, the panties are easily put on and the dildo slipped through the O-ring. This means it is easier to maintain the mood as there is no waiting around. It really is as easy as pulling on a pair of underwear. Secondly, I think they look very sexy on my girlfriend and the crotchless aspect is a big plus. This means I can still play with her without having to remove any straps or such things, and I really like the crotchless look of these panties. Thirdly, I love the stability they provide. With our less expensive strap on kit, the dildo would sometimes spin around and my girlfriend would have to stop to adjust the toy. With these panties, it holds the dildo firmly in place and she can thrust in every position we want. Summed up, this high-quality product combines easy use with strong, long-lasting material that is designed to give you and you partner all the pleasure and fun you want! It is more than a panty, it is a RodeoH panty!

Well, how wonderful are these! They arrived in a lovely soft fabric bag as packaging that can be used to store them too. Do note that the bag has a description and care instructions printed on it. Of course the first thing I did was try them on! They’re incredibly comfortable and very sexy. The open back provides a perfect frame for your buns and the elegant lace panels on a shape similar to panties/girlboxers is so much more appealing than the usual slightly-off-putting-at-best, darn-intimidating-at-worst network of straps and buckles. They’re so pretty they could be worn to a sexy party with stockings and a suspender belt, as you’re still easily accessible for play and it takes seconds to add a toy.

The attachment mechanism is simple, understated and very secure. It’s an O-ring sewn into the front in the perfect place for anatomical representation and full control of movement with the hips (I hope that makes sense!), in front of two overlapping fabric flaps that protect your skin from rubbing or catching, while still allowing the option of passing a double-ended toy right through. It’s so easy to fit a toy into, be it a standard flared/suction cup base dildo or double ended, simply feed it through to sit between the O-ring and the fabric flaps behind it (or pass through both if using a double). Quick tip – if you want to use something that’s a little too small for the O-ring, leave the fabric flaps between the O-ring and the base of the toy, and they’ll keep it in place.

The material is very soft with no pinching or rubbing as straps quite often tend to. The care instructions read machine or hand washable (30 degrees), and hang to dry. The sizing is slightly small. I got the size XL/12-14 and it’s a good fit, but I wouldn’t want them any smaller, and I usually have a little room in a size 12. They need to be tight in order to be secure of course, but do bear it in mind when ordering. That so far is the closest thing I can find to a negative point. If you have any interest in strap-on play, you need a pair of these. Worth every penny and more, best option on the market.