Takes practice
Let's start with my first impressions. The material is very soft, and the stroker's size is intimidating, even for an ftm like myself who has been years on T and has achieved full growth. Now, here's where I can't stress to practice. It will take quite a few tries to get it to suction on just right. But, when it does, you're never going to want to be without this thing. It feels amazing, and the quality of my orgasm was far above what I usually experience jacking off. Your experience will also be much better with a small amount of water based lube. It really helps the suction. It is a little loud, if you think about the sounds a typical Fleshlight makes when used, it's a similar sound. Would be great in the shower.