A friend of mine recommended these to me. I was, like everyone else, skeptical at first. I ordered regular shipping and I couldn't believe how fast the order was here. I didn't waste any time and tried them on. I'm 160 lbs, about 5'4 and I went with a L (I always find that helpful, when people give that information). And just WOW. That's all I have to say ... it fits very much like spanx with the fabric layering. I just feel so sexy in these! Can't believe it. So thankful I finally found a comfortable harness go to that isn't digging into my skin. I also picked up a pretty dildo with sparkles, and that realistic looking one ... flex! YES! Get the flex! The positions are just remarkable without the dildo flopping out. I love it. I love everything. I just have one request - MORE COLORS PLEASE! 💖💖💖💖💖

Y'all, this is an incredible harness. I received it today and everything about it is just perfect: * followed the sizing guide and it fits like a very sexy glove * flattering shape * super well made and sturdy * double o rings mean I can choose how the toy sits * works with every toy we have and the one we bought with this order * came with a very cute and soft bag that has a little extra room for other things I mean after a year of fighting with a harness that didn't fit, I wish I had biught this earlier. It's a breeze to insert toys and the underwear themselves are super comfy and flattering, almost to the point of shapewear! Completely worth the money.